A letter to our unborn child

Dear Son or Daughter, Thank you for the time that we spent together. Thank you for allowing me to carry you inside my body for as long as I could. I’m so sorry we could not bring you into this world to join our family. […]

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Letting go.

My unwanted mission field. As this process unfolds I want you to know I am still clinging to the promises of GOD. I am currently “still pregnant” going on 9 weeks now. I still don’t have answers. Our baby no longer has a heartbeat but […]

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Gaining new perspective.

HOPE It is not always easy to gain a new perspective amidst a trial. Sometimes it takes hours of reflection, open dialogue with wise counsel and time to truly accept the magnitude of your new reality. But it is in these moments that we gain […]

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Healing her naturally

As a new mom sometimes I teeter between confidence and self-doubt, negligence versus persistence and reality versus social media. My desire is to always remain focused when it comes to my intuition, especially when it relates to my family. Well, this week “what I thought I […]

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Keepin’ it Clean!

Sanitizing on Saturday for the WIN!!! I decided to start a weekly cleaning regiment at the start of the year. I didn’t want to get overwhelmed during the week with all the housework I have to keep up with. So, on Saturdays, I like to […]

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Love thy Neighbor

We MOVED… but before we did, God taught us a hard lesson on “loving thy neighbor”. Our neighbor and her dog have been a major thorn in my side this past year. Ever since we moved to California we have had a very unpleasant relationship […]

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The Other Woman

My husband has a mistress and I know it. I have always known about this secret affair, but it used to not really bother me too much. There was never a time where she didn’t exist. I married him knowing this might be an issue, […]

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It ain’t always easy….

I didn’t think my love language was acts of service until my acts of service loving husband went to Las Vegas for a work trip and left me alone with our daughter and 2 dogs. I honestly hands-down have to give credit to single moms […]

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Hello world!

Ruthie Cody is married to her former next-door neighbor Spencer Cody, a descendant of Buffalo Bill Cody, and is a first-time mommy to daughter Oakley Anne. Oakley was named after the famous Annie Oakley #littlesureshot. Ruthie is a believer in Jesus Christ and an avid […]

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